Of star couple: Yu Cheng celebrates Yi Nengjing

Tell about a person: Jane

The age: 25 years old

Him profession: Software development

Husband profession: Software development

Advantage summary: We have a lot of collective topics, life a bit does not feel as dry as a chip, closer is, because be a person of the same trade, can understand the pressure of the other side and difficulties that one is reluctant to mention very much.

Inferior position summary: Thinking pattern is same, two people discuss problem hard to avoid to have a few limitation.

"Parity marriage " result: It is good that a lot of people were not apart from ability between hope husband and wife, but I feel, if from long-term look, two people still give each other a few spaces, the relation is met instead more harmonious.

Of star couple: Yu Cheng celebrates Yi Nengjing

I and husband are met when same home company works, like him at that time, the profession that follows him has very big concern. Speak out a bit comical, I am preferred and oneself the man of an industry. This may be the effect that suffers parents, because my parents is a person of the same trade, often see if they discuss the job on dining table, be inscribed in one's childhood, envy the sort of feeling especially.

Of follow a rational line to do some work well, I and husband love married, but a few problems were encountered after marriage. I two with the different branch in a foreign enterprise, although the company does not have regulation of proclaimed in writing, husband and wife can not be in the company that be the same as the home, but I am faint still felt a few inconvenience. When for instance the colleague is discussing the issue of human relation, always can keep away from I, the likelihood feels I compare others much layer " relation " . When the boss is arranging the job, although what to say on the mouth, but also can keep away from as far as possible the collaboration of I and husband. These " recessive " protest, let me feel very awkward, very uncomfortable, so, I decided to resign. When I tell husband this idea, he all along careless shows very open-eyed expression: "How do I feel without this kind? "How do I feel without this kind??

Actually I find new job to still have a reason, the idea of I and this husband happens to have the same view. I and he is the person with more independent individual character, there is very big demand all the time in free respect. We hope to have a working space that belongs to our, the a gang belongs to him " a gang of scoundries " , belong to oneself " independent " the mood. Because of us the pressure of this industry is very great, everybody works occasionally need is loosened. After coming off work so, like to make an appointment with respective colleague to go bar chats a little, hit card games, show a note. If everybody is in a company, this are not done, each other freedom is spent the conference is a lot of smaller, intercourse group also becomes a lot of younger, this does not accord with my individual character of two absolutely. So, finding new job is of of course. After trading a company, the air that I feel to work " pure and fresh " a lot of, the relation of I and husband also close to " perfect " . Because the other side does not see in the unit, after coming home, our instead prefers sticky together. When the job is busy, we as far as possible work overtime " move " come home in. The pet phrase that the foreign enterprise has a popularity cries " to beat up " , it is two people to Over Time, we belong to this kind. Eat dinner, clear away a little, everybody moves respective computer and document to the front of desk, face-to-face the job. Although abhor,work overtime, but be together because of two people, as dry as a chip overwork also becomes interesting rise. In the job, we help each other via regular meeting, I encounter those who cannot solve to look for him, he " first " big also can ask me. Occasionally we also can be contended for, relatively interest, the level that who compares is more arrogant, but those are fun property, actually more it is mutual help. Occasionally, one individual job is not done, another person can wait all the time go down, I feel this kind of feeling is particularly dependable, like there is an individual to accompany you on the take way before resembling be in, again bitter again tired also can hold on.
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